Do not judge people..do not think bad of them…do not translate or interpret their deeds and actions quickly..give them excuses…
Life is so hard…every one has his own pain and troubles even if it seems the contrary….
The picture is not complete…you only see a part of it…
So when you give excuses to others your heart will be secure and safe…
Allah says
O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin.….
Al Hojoraat Chapter
Verse 12
يا أيها الذين آمنوا اجتنبوا كثيرا من الظن إن بعض الظن إثم
سورة الحجرات الاية 12
We never know the whole story except our own. What others do or do not do, it is not up to us to make assumptions but to remember that all are human and fallible.
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A good approach is to assume that everyone is doing his or her best. Great post, Sohair. Cheers
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Great reminder! Thanks for sharing
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Wonderful share. No one knows all about someone else. We are blessed to get a glimpse, as we touch each other’s lives from afar. I prefer to see the best. Beautiful bouquet. Thank you for such a touching post. 🌷
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Well said my friend ….thank you so much for reading and commenting …I appreciate that a lot …♡♡♡
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Thank you so much Chris dear friend . …Have a wonderful day…cheers 🙂
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Thanks a lot dear sis for being a part of my post..Best regards ♡♡♡
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Thanks a lot for the great comment ….have a great day♡♡♡
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You’re welcome. 😊
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Very true.
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You too! ❤️
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Thanks a lot dear friend Sadaf Siddiqi….your comment means a lot…best regards…☺❤
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A GOOD PART OF THE PICTURE—YESSIREE!
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Thank you so much Jonathan for the reblog…I appreciate that a lot ☺🎁
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Nice share and a nice remainder👌
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Thanks a lot jyo dear friend…have a great week ☺💕
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SMiLes.. Sohair.. As i lEarn something new for of all of
God’s Nature iN/aS aLL Of Creation that is different from me..
And often.. i learn the most from those who are so
different from me..
so.. i don’t
exclude
anyone or
anything or
even nothing
from the Total Pie
as Nature Creation and
Beyond as God Ocean Whole
for Metaphor of CouRSE.. anYWay..
mY FriEnd.. the last few days have surely
been turmoil for Katrina received some news
from a Burn Center Doctor he might have to remove
her index finger but fortunately when he took off her bandage
the Wound had healed where that was not necessary as he based
that news on a photo of the wound shared when she came in the
Emergency Treatment Room on Saturday and they also said she may
have to stay in the Hospital that is another State away from our home
for Two Weeks but thank Goodness that is changed now where she may
be able to come home as soon tomorrow… if she does well after a surgery
tomorrow that will graft synthetic skin on the top of her hand as she will
wait for her own skin graft after that procedure heals.. anyway.. all this Dark
of Difference in the Nature of our lives for so long that has been practically
Stress free for what most folks deal with in life.. relatively speaking.. teaches
me the value of what i’ve learned and the tools of life that keep me from sinking
to the Deeper dArk away from liGHT.. as i am born with that propensity for both both
LiGHT
And DaRK
mY FriEnd aS
An oPen HeaRT
LeaRNS GRoWinG
A SPiRiT oF SoUL STRongeR
iN Greater Grace oF LoVE WiLL…:)
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Hello Fred dear friend…my posts are not complete without your precious comments.
Oh dear Katrina I thought that the burn was superficial but it seems to be a profound one….I am so sorry for her…she is a kind hearted person …she helps children in the society and she is a real sinsere wife .May she recover soon and her pain will be in the scale of good deeds in the day of judgment…as we are rewarded by God for any bad thing that offend us in life.
Why you consider yourself different Fred….I do not know much about autistic features.. all I know is that autistic people are more intelligent and more sensistive than all people….so you are gifted by God.I do not feel that you are different…your knowledge is vast and great….your abilities are great also…you are successful in your life…
May Allah protect you and your dear wife my friend…may all your days be happy…smiles of hope ♡:-):-):-)
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Aw…that is gorgeous indeed…
You always make my day by your beautiful flowers….
I am grateful
Thanks a ton 🙂
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SMiLes my friEnd Sohair.. thanks for the Sweet Words and Kind Prayer
and Wishes for Katrina’s Recovery and that is a very nice
compliment too about Autistic Folks in General for
some can and will be very Sensitive and
SmART too but in all things
Human we are unique
in our own ways
too and that is what
i mean by Different as not
Different in a Bad way just
Unique as Snow Flake Humans
will be in Original God Nature
as Created all for holding Hands
together with each unique talent
for the entire Group of Humans to survive
best.. true.. we need an entire palette and beyond
to make Survival and Thrive Work of Being Human now..
hehe..
i’m still
working
on MaKinG
MoRE Colors my
Dear FriEnd Sohair and
not close to running out of
additional ones as life is full
of moving connecting and co-Creating
With God Nature STiLL.. i’ll take my self
just the way i am and everyone else too just
the way they are as an i am now too.. all paRT
oF GoD WHoLE Best in LiGHT oF LoVE NoW sTiLL MoRE..:)
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Yes Fred..
I agree with you my friend…
Thank you so much for the comment and for being here..
Have a wonderful day in Florida..
Smiles of happiness 🙂
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SMiLes iN
Egypt to
You too..
Sohair
With LoVE..:)
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Maa shaa Allah❤️❤️
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Thank you so much dear sis💟💗💚💛💜
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bonjour Sohair…
Dieu fait toujours en sorte
d’ôter notre Doute,
alors, si au départ d’une situation,
notre Esprit interprète plus ou moins bien,
par la suite,
les actes nous révèlent ce que nous supposions…
car Dieu
fait tout à la Perfection,
protège les Siens sur le Chemin…
@men…
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Let’s try to see the whole picture, as you say xx
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Very similar in ideas to The bible. I am one og the “people of the book”. 🙂 Thank you for making this thought clear and enjoyable to read!
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Hi Fred dear friend…how is Katrina now?
I hope she is better than before…send her my love and respect..smiles☺
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sMiLes.. Sohair.. Thanks for Taking the Effort on
Your only Friday Weekend Day to Check up on
Katrina who is doing much better
Now rested away from her
Hospital Stay.. as i relayed
your Kind Wishes of Love and
Respect to her.. and we are still
Visiting the Hospital every few days
in the Next State over to a Specialized
Wound Care Unit for the Unique Burn Treatment
they Provide there in terms of Synthetic Skin Grafts
that Heal the Underlying Tissues so one’s own Human
Skin Will Graft Better.. as that Surgery that may require her
to stay in the Hospital overnight will be in a couple to few weeks
from now soon.. anyway.. reminds me of all the commuting i did when
i worked in the Next City over back in my early 40’s in if i remember correctly
is close to your Age now.. and how tired and really totally exhausted without the
Energy to do much at the end of the day except work-out and play a little Video
Game and Watch TV 10 Minutes and do the same Routine 5 days a week and
then get all the House Chores and Store Bought Goods for Subsistence
caught up on the Weekend even though Katrina did most of the
Handiwork and Footwork of that while i tagged along..
anyway.. it always took me the Full Two Days to
Recuperate enough to do the Five Days
again as the School Effort
made it through 19 years
And Work for 33 years too..
that seems like other Worlds
away now no longer adhering to anyone
else’s Schedule for me until now for these
Healing Procedures for Katrina to get well..
And True.. it affirms to me that if i hadn’t
turned to ill and escaped that Wash
Rinse and Dry Cycle of Life
this ink well of Words
Would Still be
as Dry
as it
was when
i started Writing
these 12 Million or so Words
back on Thanks Giving Day to Escape
the Pain i had up to that point in 2010 for
33 months then with no effective use of my eyes
and ears for stuck ‘tween my ears then where the
Stress of Work was surely desirable over that Hell
Within.. anyway.. i’m sort of waveRing own here
as i really do need some sleep as perhaps
i’ll get back to the more invincible
Feeling Fred without Work that
Most folks are bound to do
for Bucks as we don’t
have to Travel back
to the Hospital until
Tuesday comes back for Trip..
True.. in some ways it is a Vacation
Away from Writing and in some ways
it is even more inspiration for Writing
so it all comes out in the MiX as A-OK to me
WiTH SMiLES Still as you are likely awaking now
to Saturday Morning Prayers Before your Work Week
Starts again after just one day’s rest for what you do
in Service to Teaching High School Girls now and i’m
thinking better yet hoping that is easier as far as Behavioral
Issues of what Young Folks Have in School today.. as it’s true
no outside play over here in the States attached to Electronic
Devices can make some very Irritable Children too.. who need
to Play more in Flesh and Blood and be more than the Tools they
use for
most of what
Folks See of Culture
these days in 5 inch
Screens or Less so
beLow the
Horizons
of
Twilight
Sunsets that
Go On iN HuMaN
iMaGiNaTion and
CReativity Forevermorenow
sure.. in other words.. i do too..
Happy Saturday Sohair for all it is.. too..:)
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Good morning Fred dear friend..I am happy to know that Katrina is better now…
I am off my work this week except for Monday and Thursday…
The next two weeks will be very hard work because the final exams will start…in my school the girls enjoy sports and social work besides computer and electronics…
My daughter has her final exams this week …I got her to the school and returned home …I will go after two hours to bring her back home…I hope she will do well in her exams..I am so worried though I helped her in studying as much as I can…but as you know children do not care for anything except playing ..she is in grade four of primary school.Her brother is asleep now..he finished his school term ..he is in Kg2.
Best wishes Fred dear friend…thanks a lot for the reply …smiles ☺👍
🎶🍀🍁🌞
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Merci beaucoup Sara Mon Ami
Je suis heureux de Vous rencontrer
Bonne nuit ☺
💕💝
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Hi Christy dear friend…thank you so much for the comment and support…best regards ☺💕💕💕
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Thank you so much Jonathan dear friend …yes I agree with you Christianity and Islam are the branches of the same tree…
Thank you so much for the comment…best regards ☺
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SMiLes again Sohair and best wishes for the success of
Your Daughter’s test taking endeavors and your
Efforts in Grading Papers of Students to come
in the next few weeks.. and i am happy to
hear that the Social Life and
Physical Education
Activities are
still paramount in
Your Schools in Egypt for
where i live after 9th grade..
Physical Education is no longer
even a requirement to take as the
‘foolish’ don’t seem to understand that
Good Physical Health and exercise raises
IQ points even as much as 10 Points if exercise
is done for an hour before an IQ test.. specifically..
As Ignorance in the Physical Health of Movement and
reduction of Face to Face Physical Play Among Children in
Informal Settings of Interaction is creating a Generation of
Children more subject to the propensity of being Aloof and
Dead inside with complex Psychological Problems so may the
Children
where you
live continue
to play for while
the development of
the intellect is important
the Soul Plays my FriEnd with
Imagination and Co-Creation with
other Human Beings and Nature set
Free for what ‘Society’ says i correct is
often the subject of Future Misery
Love Company in a Life Evolving
for Humans to Hold Hands
Moving Connecting
and Co-Creating
as Play
for the
every day
survive and thrive for
Life that makes this Life
Heaven now relatively speaking
instead of Humans who live as Tools
And Machines as Cogs in ‘the machine’
of Culture that is more heartless and spiritless
iN emotions and soulless out of mind and body balance
that shines God Forth as Love rather empty within held hostage..:)
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Well said Fred..I always learn a lot from your precious comments…I also agree with every word you said…
Be happy my friend..
Have a wonderful weekend…
Smiles of hope ♡:-)
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That’s not really what I said, but it’s acceptable. Try to explain that to the fundamentals, how ever! I’m glad that you and I can be at peace!
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Yes of course…peace be with you my friend…☺
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ليس كل مايتمناه الانسان يكون خيرا له
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الصداع هيفجر دماغى تعبت
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You are a good man, I think. Do you know the expression ‘the benefit of the doubt’?
e.g. ‘You think he is dishonest, but don’t judge him. Give him the benefit of the doubt.’
I think you’d find the expression useful.
Warm greetings from Pat
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Hi Pat …thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment…yes..I agree with your view…well said dear.
By the way I am a lady
Have a great day ☺
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My apologies for getting your gender wrong Sohair. Whoops!
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Never mind….you are welcome☺
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Wise to govern ourselves this way but not allow ourselves to be duped by unsavory people.
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Yes well said..
Thanks a lot dear for taking the time to read and comment…best regards!
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Thanks a lot .
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Great reminder indeed, but I don’t know that it’s possible not to judge especially for me, I almost always judge, although mostly in my mind. May peace be with you.
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Peace be with u July…yes I judge people also but life taught me to always give excuses to other people’s behaviour….so that I do not have passive feelings to any body in the world…
Best regards July and thanks for being part of my post 🙂
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ليس كل مايتمناه الانسان يكون خيرا له
الصداع هيفجر دماغى تعبت
English translation please, and you write it in the comment section if you don’t mind 😁
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🙂
I said not everything we wish is good for us and then I said that I have a strong headache.
Sometimes I write my thoughts in the comment section because that makes me better…I am weird…aren’t me 😀
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That makes both of us 😆
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Hi Sohair 😁
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Hi July…life is good…have a great day:-)
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Alright… back in the game… thank you so much for the help Sohair 😊
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🙂
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Ramadan Kareem, Sohair!
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Allah Akram dear friend Just_Me…thanks a lot…have a great day:-)
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Thanks a lot…♡
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