A part of the picture…

Do not judge people..do not think bad of them…do not translate or interpret their deeds and actions quickly..give them excuses…

Life is so hard…every one has his own pain and troubles even if it seems the contrary….

The picture is not complete…you only see a part of it…

So when you give excuses to others your heart will be secure and safe…

Allah says

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin.….

Al Hojoraat Chapter

Verse 12

يا أيها الذين آمنوا اجتنبوا كثيرا من الظن إن بعض الظن إثم

سورة الحجرات الاية 12

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61 thoughts on “A part of the picture…

  1. Well said my friend ….thank you so much for reading and commenting …I appreciate that a lot …♡♡♡

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  2. SMiLes.. Sohair.. As i lEarn something new for of all of
    God’s Nature iN/aS aLL Of Creation that is different from me..
    And often.. i learn the most from those who are so
    different from me..
    so.. i don’t
    exclude
    anyone or
    anything or
    even nothing
    from the Total Pie
    as Nature Creation and
    Beyond as God Ocean Whole
    for Metaphor of CouRSE.. anYWay..
    mY FriEnd.. the last few days have surely
    been turmoil for Katrina received some news
    from a Burn Center Doctor he might have to remove
    her index finger but fortunately when he took off her bandage
    the Wound had healed where that was not necessary as he based
    that news on a photo of the wound shared when she came in the
    Emergency Treatment Room on Saturday and they also said she may
    have to stay in the Hospital that is another State away from our home
    for Two Weeks but thank Goodness that is changed now where she may
    be able to come home as soon tomorrow… if she does well after a surgery
    tomorrow that will graft synthetic skin on the top of her hand as she will
    wait for her own skin graft after that procedure heals.. anyway.. all this Dark
    of Difference in the Nature of our lives for so long that has been practically
    Stress free for what most folks deal with in life.. relatively speaking.. teaches
    me the value of what i’ve learned and the tools of life that keep me from sinking
    to the Deeper dArk away from liGHT.. as i am born with that propensity for both both
    LiGHT
    And DaRK
    mY FriEnd aS
    An oPen HeaRT
    LeaRNS GRoWinG
    A SPiRiT oF SoUL STRongeR
    iN Greater Grace oF LoVE WiLL…:)

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  3. Hello Fred dear friend…my posts are not complete without your precious comments.
    Oh dear Katrina I thought that the burn was superficial but it seems to be a profound one….I am so sorry for her…she is a kind hearted person …she helps children in the society and she is a real sinsere wife .May she recover soon and her pain will be in the scale of good deeds in the day of judgment…as we are rewarded by God for any bad thing that offend us in life.
    Why you consider yourself different Fred….I do not know much about autistic features.. all I know is that autistic people are more intelligent and more sensistive than all people….so you are gifted by God.I do not feel that you are different…your knowledge is vast and great….your abilities are great also…you are successful in your life…
    May Allah protect you and your dear wife my friend…may all your days be happy…smiles of hope ♡:-):-):-)

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  4. SMiLes my friEnd Sohair.. thanks for the Sweet Words and Kind Prayer
    and Wishes for Katrina’s Recovery and that is a very nice
    compliment too about Autistic Folks in General for
    some can and will be very Sensitive and
    SmART too but in all things
    Human we are unique
    in our own ways
    too and that is what
    i mean by Different as not
    Different in a Bad way just
    Unique as Snow Flake Humans
    will be in Original God Nature
    as Created all for holding Hands
    together with each unique talent
    for the entire Group of Humans to survive
    best.. true.. we need an entire palette and beyond
    to make Survival and Thrive Work of Being Human now..
    hehe..
    i’m still
    working
    on MaKinG
    MoRE Colors my
    Dear FriEnd Sohair and
    not close to running out of
    additional ones as life is full
    of moving connecting and co-Creating
    With God Nature STiLL.. i’ll take my self
    just the way i am and everyone else too just
    the way they are as an i am now too.. all paRT
    oF GoD WHoLE Best in LiGHT oF LoVE NoW sTiLL MoRE..:)

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  5. Yes Fred..
    I agree with you my friend…
    Thank you so much for the comment and for being here..
    Have a wonderful day in Florida..
    Smiles of happiness 🙂

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  6. bonjour Sohair…
    Dieu fait toujours en sorte
    d’ôter notre Doute,
    alors, si au départ d’une situation,
    notre Esprit interprète plus ou moins bien,
    par la suite,
    les actes nous révèlent ce que nous supposions…
    car Dieu
    fait tout à la Perfection,
    protège les Siens sur le Chemin…
    @men…

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  7. sMiLes.. Sohair.. Thanks for Taking the Effort on
    Your only Friday Weekend Day to Check up on
    Katrina who is doing much better
    Now rested away from her
    Hospital Stay.. as i relayed
    your Kind Wishes of Love and
    Respect to her.. and we are still
    Visiting the Hospital every few days
    in the Next State over to a Specialized
    Wound Care Unit for the Unique Burn Treatment
    they Provide there in terms of Synthetic Skin Grafts
    that Heal the Underlying Tissues so one’s own Human
    Skin Will Graft Better.. as that Surgery that may require her
    to stay in the Hospital overnight will be in a couple to few weeks
    from now soon.. anyway.. reminds me of all the commuting i did when
    i worked in the Next City over back in my early 40’s in if i remember correctly
    is close to your Age now.. and how tired and really totally exhausted without the
    Energy to do much at the end of the day except work-out and play a little Video
    Game and Watch TV 10 Minutes and do the same Routine 5 days a week and
    then get all the House Chores and Store Bought Goods for Subsistence
    caught up on the Weekend even though Katrina did most of the
    Handiwork and Footwork of that while i tagged along..
    anyway.. it always took me the Full Two Days to
    Recuperate enough to do the Five Days
    again as the School Effort
    made it through 19 years
    And Work for 33 years too..
    that seems like other Worlds
    away now no longer adhering to anyone
    else’s Schedule for me until now for these
    Healing Procedures for Katrina to get well..
    And True.. it affirms to me that if i hadn’t
    turned to ill and escaped that Wash
    Rinse and Dry Cycle of Life
    this ink well of Words
    Would Still be
    as Dry
    as it
    was when
    i started Writing
    these 12 Million or so Words
    back on Thanks Giving Day to Escape
    the Pain i had up to that point in 2010 for
    33 months then with no effective use of my eyes
    and ears for stuck ‘tween my ears then where the
    Stress of Work was surely desirable over that Hell
    Within.. anyway.. i’m sort of waveRing own here
    as i really do need some sleep as perhaps
    i’ll get back to the more invincible
    Feeling Fred without Work that
    Most folks are bound to do
    for Bucks as we don’t
    have to Travel back
    to the Hospital until
    Tuesday comes back for Trip..
    True.. in some ways it is a Vacation
    Away from Writing and in some ways
    it is even more inspiration for Writing
    so it all comes out in the MiX as A-OK to me
    WiTH SMiLES Still as you are likely awaking now
    to Saturday Morning Prayers Before your Work Week
    Starts again after just one day’s rest for what you do
    in Service to Teaching High School Girls now and i’m
    thinking better yet hoping that is easier as far as Behavioral
    Issues of what Young Folks Have in School today.. as it’s true
    no outside play over here in the States attached to Electronic
    Devices can make some very Irritable Children too.. who need
    to Play more in Flesh and Blood and be more than the Tools they
    use for
    most of what
    Folks See of Culture
    these days in 5 inch
    Screens or Less so
    beLow the
    Horizons
    of
    Twilight
    Sunsets that
    Go On iN HuMaN
    iMaGiNaTion and
    CReativity Forevermorenow
    sure.. in other words.. i do too..
    Happy Saturday Sohair for all it is.. too..:)

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  8. Good morning Fred dear friend..I am happy to know that Katrina is better now…
    I am off my work this week except for Monday and Thursday…
    The next two weeks will be very hard work because the final exams will start…in my school the girls enjoy sports and social work besides computer and electronics…
    My daughter has her final exams this week …I got her to the school and returned home …I will go after two hours to bring her back home…I hope she will do well in her exams..I am so worried though I helped her in studying as much as I can…but as you know children do not care for anything except playing ..she is in grade four of primary school.Her brother is asleep now..he finished his school term ..he is in Kg2.
    Best wishes Fred dear friend…thanks a lot for the reply …smiles ☺👍
    🎶🍀🍁🌞

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  9. Hi Christy dear friend…thank you so much for the comment and support…best regards ☺💕💕💕

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  10. Thank you so much Jonathan dear friend …yes I agree with you Christianity and Islam are the branches of the same tree…
    Thank you so much for the comment…best regards ☺

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  11. SMiLes again Sohair and best wishes for the success of
    Your Daughter’s test taking endeavors and your
    Efforts in Grading Papers of Students to come
    in the next few weeks.. and i am happy to
    hear that the Social Life and
    Physical Education
    Activities are
    still paramount in
    Your Schools in Egypt for
    where i live after 9th grade..
    Physical Education is no longer
    even a requirement to take as the
    ‘foolish’ don’t seem to understand that
    Good Physical Health and exercise raises
    IQ points even as much as 10 Points if exercise
    is done for an hour before an IQ test.. specifically..
    As Ignorance in the Physical Health of Movement and
    reduction of Face to Face Physical Play Among Children in
    Informal Settings of Interaction is creating a Generation of
    Children more subject to the propensity of being Aloof and
    Dead inside with complex Psychological Problems so may the
    Children
    where you
    live continue
    to play for while
    the development of
    the intellect is important
    the Soul Plays my FriEnd with
    Imagination and Co-Creation with
    other Human Beings and Nature set
    Free for what ‘Society’ says i correct is
    often the subject of Future Misery
    Love Company in a Life Evolving
    for Humans to Hold Hands
    Moving Connecting
    and Co-Creating
    as Play
    for the
    every day
    survive and thrive for
    Life that makes this Life
    Heaven now relatively speaking
    instead of Humans who live as Tools
    And Machines as Cogs in ‘the machine’
    of Culture that is more heartless and spiritless
    iN emotions and soulless out of mind and body balance
    that shines God Forth as Love rather empty within held hostage..:)

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  12. Well said Fred..I always learn a lot from your precious comments…I also agree with every word you said…
    Be happy my friend..
    Have a wonderful weekend…
    Smiles of hope ♡:-)

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  13. You are a good man, I think. Do you know the expression ‘the benefit of the doubt’?
    e.g. ‘You think he is dishonest, but don’t judge him. Give him the benefit of the doubt.’
    I think you’d find the expression useful.
    Warm greetings from Pat

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  14. Hi Pat …thank you so much for taking the time to read and comment…yes..I agree with your view…well said dear.
    By the way I am a lady
    Have a great day ☺

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  15. Yes well said..
    Thanks a lot dear for taking the time to read and comment…best regards!

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  16. Great reminder indeed, but I don’t know that it’s possible not to judge especially for me, I almost always judge, although mostly in my mind. May peace be with you.

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  17. Peace be with u July…yes I judge people also but life taught me to always give excuses to other people’s behaviour….so that I do not have passive feelings to any body in the world…
    Best regards July and thanks for being part of my post 🙂

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  18. ليس كل مايتمناه الانسان يكون خيرا له
    الصداع هيفجر دماغى تعبت
    English translation please, and you write it in the comment section if you don’t mind 😁

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  19. 🙂
    I said not everything we wish is good for us and then I said that I have a strong headache.
    Sometimes I write my thoughts in the comment section because that makes me better…I am weird…aren’t me 😀

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