Never judge..

Sometimes my daughter tells me ( I love my father more than you..)..

Her father died 4 years ago..

She was 6 when he left..

He used to obey her and do whatever she wanted …

But me…no…

I am a father and a mother now..

I have to be cruel sometimes…

I always tell her ( when I sometimes act with cruelty…I do this for your good…so never judge me as a cruel person )…

Sometimes we appear as cruel…

But God only knows that mercy is the aim of our cruelty …

Look at this photo and you will get it..

Allah says..

قُلْ إِنِّي عَلَىٰ بَيِّنَةٍ مِنْ رَبِّي وَكَذَّبْتُمْ بِهِ ۚ مَا عِنْدِي مَا تَسْتَعْجِلُونَ بِهِ ۚ إِنِ الْحُكْمُ إِلَّا لِلَّهِ ۖ يَقُصُّ الْحَقَّ ۖ وَهُوَ خَيْرُ الْفَاصِلِينَ
Say: “For me, I (work) on a clear sign from my Lord, but ye reject Him. What ye would see hastened, is not in my power. The command rests with none but Allah: He declares the truth, and He is the best of judges.”

Peace..

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The last scene..

After the movie had finished, I began to cry sadly..

I was about 10 years when I watched the story of the elephant man on the T.V.

The last scene was curved in my memory..

The elephant man returned home and was so happy..it was the happiest time in his life…it was the first time to receive such nice words in a party made for him…he committed suicide as soon as he went home.

The man used to hear bad words from people during his whole life..

That evening was the only day to hear good words from other people …

So he decided to commit suicide…he wanted that evening to be the last time for him in that cruel life…

I am against suicide of course but I understand his situation…

Anyway …what I wanted to say is that words can do much…words can change the world to better or worse…words visit the heart before the brain…

Allah says…

24.
See you not how Allah sets forth a parable? – A goodly word as a goodly tree, whose root is firmly fixed, and its branches (reach) to the sky (i.e. very high).

25. Giving its fruit at all times, by the Leave of its Lord and Allah sets forth parables for mankind in order that they may remember.

26. And the parable of an evil word is that of an evil tree uprooted from the surface of earth having no stability.

Ibrahim chapter

Verse 24,25,26

Forgive yourself..

I am that type of people who lashes her self all the time..

Yes..it is good to blame myself for committing mistakes…

But I am about to fall in a deep dark hole that will end with my end….

I will forgive my self for all the harm I caused to her…

I always forgive people for hurting me…

But I discovered that I am blaming my self all the time….

Yes ..yes…

I will open a new page with my self…I will forgive her..I will be kind to her…

I will not underestimate myself…

I will value her and be kind to her…

Sorry myself…forgive me…I hurt you a lot…but I will not do that again…I promise God willing…

Little but great :-)

A simple man was asked ” Why are you always smiling ? “..

The man said ” Why not?….All my life is in the hands of God….so why don’t I smile…”

Prophet Mohammad said….

تبسمك فى وجه أخيك صدقة، وأمرك بالمعروف صدقة ونهيك عن المنكر صدقة، وإرشادك الرجل في أرض الضلال لك صدقة، ونصرك الرجل الرديء البصر لك صدقة، وإماطتك الحجر والشوك العظم عن الطريق لك صدقة
Smiling is an act of charity.
So is enjoining good and forbidding evil,
giving directions to the lost traveller,
aiding the blind and
removing obstacles from the path.
Have a great day 🙂

Joy….

Happiness is to accept everything written by God ( Allah)…., to be patient without hurry…., to think Good of God …

Allah says….

فَاصْبِرْ عَلَىٰ مَا يَقُولُونَ وَسَبِّحْ بِحَمْدِ رَبِّكَ قَبْلَ طُلُوعِ الشَّمْسِ وَقَبْلَ غُرُوبِهَا ۖ وَمِنْ آنَاءِ اللَّيْلِ فَسَبِّحْ وَأَطْرَافَ النَّهَارِ لَعَلَّكَ تَرْضَىٰ
Therefore be patient with what they say, and celebrate (constantly) the praises of thy Lord, before the rising of the sun, and before its setting; yea, celebrate them for part of the hours of the night, and at the sides of the day: that thou mayest have (spiritual) joy.

Apathy people…

The more you have experience in life…the more apathy you gain..

So that wise people do not speak too much..why?…I will tell you why??

Because they get used to loss…loss not failure…

They are successful…but they lost a lot during their life journey…they have become disappointed several times…

They finally became what you can call(apathy people)…

If you think that you are one of those people…I will say to you(Congrats:-)….)….

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “He who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him show hospitality to his guest; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain good relation with kins; and he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak good or remain silent.”
Peace be upon prophet Mohammad…

Crazy people…

Yes…the train station is a different life..

There you can meet people of all types in life..

An old woman came near me …she was buying tissues.. I bought some although I did not need any…I gave her more money than she asked for…the woman looked so poor and exhausted…

She deserves to be helped by others.

I sat on the chair with my children waiting for the train that comes from Luxor to north Egypt…

Suddenly I heard some one talking..

I looked behind..

I found the old woman sitting on the ground…

She began to speak and laugh in a strange way…

It seems that she wanted to tell her story to every one in the station..

Sadly some people listened and laughed at her …

The woman seemed to have a big shock in her life…someone stole her gold…it seemed that she lost her son…may be she had a family..and money…but something bad happened and she lost everything..and finally she found herself alone…with no one to care for her…with no family…no money…it seems that she lost her mind…

I felt so sad for her….

I wished that my last years in life will be with people who love me…

Oh God(Allah)…I do not want to be alone at that age…I do not want to lose the people I love…

To be crazy…to lose your mind…to become alone…is the most difficult thing that can happen to a human being…

We pretend to be strong…we think we are strong…

But the reality is that we are weak…so weak we are indeed…