I just need to talk..so I will talk and talk ..may be I will be better after that..
Relationships need balance to be successful..
Friends and couples should create balance in their relationships to be successful..
When I send my friend a massage and ask for her/him..when I care..when I miss her /him…when I forgive a mistake..l should also be treated the same way by my friend..
When balance disappears from relations ..disappointment is the result..
You feel that you are lost..
You feel that your friend is just like a selfish child who wants his mother to take care of him because he is her gift from God..
You feel that your friend wants you to thank God that you are blessed of having him in your life..
Isn’t that a selfish person?
How can We make relationships with selfish people who want to take and do not want to give..
When you ask them why are they acting this way..they remind you of what you said before .
What did I say?
I said that I do everything for the sake of God..so I should take care of my friend and expect nothing..
Allah says ..
This is called balance in relationships..
We are not created in this world to be a medicine..we are humans..we feel like others feel..we need care and love as they need care and love…
In this kind of relation you find that your friend is not only selfish but also has a great ego in his character..
When you mistake ..you should be punished several times for one mistake. ..
When your friend mistake..you should forgive him and let go…
You should thank God several times if he did something Good for you..yes ..this is a great blessing …you should be grateful..oh my God…I should be grateful..
I do not need your friendships..I do not need to be a medicine in your life .I am a human being…who feels as you feel ..
That’s why I lost a lot of friends in the last few years..I feel better without them..they wasted my time and my health…their high ego made them treat me with no mercy…they revenge and revenge and revenge and their revenge has no end…
They will stop revenge in two cases..
The first when I leave their hands and go away..
The second when they hear about my death…
Prophet Mohammad ( Peace and blessings be upon him) practiced meditation inside the cave of Heraa for several years..
The cave was so far from Makkah..it was in a high place in Al Noor mountain ..
Climbing up that mountain to reach that cave is so difficult …you should be a strong person and physically fit to reach that cave.
Inside the cave is complete silence…there Prophet Mohammad practised his meditation…
Most wise men all over the world practised meditation like Buddah…
Let’s know the values of practising meditation..
Give me your experience in the comment box please…
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Through your life journey,you will receive many shocks..you will be disappointed several times..you will lose a lot of friends..you will lose your strength…you will become a person that watches more than reacts to actions around you..because life turned you to a weak person…
You become weak because you are exhausted…
I do not have power for debates or discussions…I just help and serve as much as I can…but I lost the strength to justify my actions and other people’s actions…
I stopped to judge people or judge actions of people..
In brief I became a patient person who try to give excuses to others and love them unconditionally…
That doesn’t mean that I lost my personality or identity or my desire to achieve my massage in life..
I am still fighting to help those who need me and depend on me..
But life made me a different person than before..
I am strong in my character but weak in my struggle against people shocks ..
I accept everything around me and never judge..
I accept illness ..
I accept pain whether physical or psychological…
At the end of my day I meet my friend(Allah)…and I tell him everything..I complain to him..he listens and gives me love and comfort and safety…
An nahl verse 42
The image is Italy at night..
I want to talk about my friend..
They call him God..
I call him Allah..
They call him the universe..
I call him the creator of the universe..
They call him all that is..
I call him the creator of all that is..
They call him Jesus..
I call him the creator of Jesus..
He sends me massages every day..
He hugs me every day. …
He guides me and enlightens my way…
I was poor but he rejoiced me..
I was alone but he socialized me..
I was sad but he delighted me..
He stood beside me in all times..
He taught me many lessons but the most important one was that I should walk in the straight path..
The straight path is the shortest..the easiest..the safest and the prettiest…
When I look at my blog and to the topics I write here I notice something important..
Every post has a verse from Quoran at the end of the post..and that is my purpose…
My purpose here is to link my thoughts with the verses of Quoran..
Quoran for me is the most important book ever…
WordPress is a way for me to make people understand Quoran..
WordPress is important in my life indeed.
I can’t stop writing in wordpress because writting here in wordpress is my massage in this life…
Yes from time to time I speak about my soul twin…but I do this rarely…
My massage here is to speak about Quran and Islam….I see this as a duty in my life ..
You believe in me or not it is up to you not to me..
I am not here to please people…
I am here to please God only…
I am here for the sake of God only…
Thank you so much for everyone of you who supported me and encouraged me…