What is real love??

I asked myself several times what is real love?

A few days ago..I got the answer..

Real love is Unconditional love.

The love of a mother to her children is real love…because a mother give and expect nothing.

The love of a father also is unconditional.

But love between parteners is not unconditional..because they want to achieve happiness out of that love.They want to fill the empty spaces in their souls by that love.

Love between partners can be unconditional in one case.I will explain.

If you want your romantic love to be unconditional love..you have to fill the spaces in your soul first.

But how to fill the spaces in your soul?

We can fill the spaces in our souls by making a unity.

Which unity?

You have to be united with yourself first.You have to be enough to yourself.

How to be enough to myself?

When I feel happy when I am alone..when I feel joy when I am alone..this is what I mean.

The ability to create joy to yourself.

If you can make joy to yourself..if you can create happiness to yourself…then you are enough to yoursrlf..then your soul will be protected.

Your soul will be protected because it has no holes.

But how to fill the holes in your soul??

The only way to fill the holes in your soul is to know your creator well.


But how we could know our creator??

We have to take thirty minutes of our daily routine for thinking only about God.

You can walk during those minutes or run or practise any sport you love.

Thinking about God will make us happy and united with ourselves..it will make us enough for ourselves..it will make us stronger.

When you manage to fill the spaces in your soul …you will be able to love unconditionally.

You will not love for the sake of achieving happiness or safety or whatever.

You will be happy for the person you love even if that person chooses to share his life with someone else…you will respect his choices and you will wish the best for him/her.


Let’s fill the spaces in our souls first …then we will achieve happiness..and then we can achieve real love..


Real love can’t be attained without knowing our creator.

And to know our creator is a journey indeed.

This journey needs some tools…like determination..practise…reading…to be grateful…to try to count your blessings…to help people…etc.

When you fill the spaces in your soul…you will become strong..and you will have the power to love unconditionally.

Best wishes.🌷💐

Monasticism and Islam🌷

Allah says…

ثُمَّ قَفَّيْنَا عَلَىٰ آثَارِهِمْ بِرُسُلِنَا وَقَفَّيْنَا بِعِيسَى ابْنِ مَرْيَمَ وَآتَيْنَاه الْإِنْجِيلَ وَجَعَلْنَا فِي قُلُوبِ الَّذِينَ اتَّبَعُوهُ رَأْفَةً وَرَحْمَةً وَرَهْبَانِيَّةً ابْتَدَعُوهَا مَا كَتَبْنَاهَا عَلَيْهِمْ إِلَّا ابْتِغَاءَ رِضْوَانِ اللَّهِ فَمَا رَعَوْهَا حَقَّ رِعَايَتِهَا ۖ فَآتَيْنَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا مِنْهُمْ أَجْرَهُمْ ۖ وَكَثِيرٌ مِنْهُمْ فَاسِقُونَ

Then, in their wake, We followed them up with (others of) Our messengers: We sent after them Jesus the son of Mary, and bestowed on him the Gospel; and We ordained in the hearts of those who followed him Compassion and Mercy. But the Monasticism which they invented for themselves, We did not prescribe for them: (We commanded) only the seeking for the Good Pleasure of Allah; but that they did not foster as they should have done. Yet We bestowed, on those among them who believed, their (due) reward, but many of them are rebellious transgressors.

The Iron Chapter

Verse 27.

We is Allah who is talking..


Migration ✈

Everyone of us has experienced migration.

Some people migrate for a better life.They leave their countries and go afar where they can find what they miss in their home towns.

Some people migrate inside their souls.They try to see the hidden inside areas which they try to hide all the time. I think this is the best type of migration,though the hardest.

Some migrate to dark areas which are haunted by the dark powers.There you can find selfishness..ego..unjustice..unfair judgment…hatered..etc.They will lost themselves there.They will enter an ugly maze which will end with their end.This is the worst type of migration.


Who is that over there??

I can see a human..I can’t decide whether it is a man or a woman.

That human’s body seems to be full of wounds and scars.But what is that human doing??

That human decided to migrate also.Over there lies a great mountain.That human’s destination is to that high mountain.

The journey is long and exhausting…but the human will go on with no hesitation.

Over that mountain live a certain kind of people.They are the elite..the superior…. the strongest. And they are the happiest.

The mountain has a name in fact.

The mountain’s name is forgiveness.

Best wishes 😎

We aren’t dead.. Are we??

Just close your eyes for two minutes…

Imagine that you are dead now..

Will you be worried about the future??

Will you be sad about the past??

Then open your eyes again..

You see..you are still alive..your life is yours..appreciate it…live it as it is…accept it..thank God for it..it is your chance to begin again..do not care about loss or gain…you are alive..yes..you are alive..say (thank you God)..


And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: “If you give thanks (by accepting Faith and worshipping none but Allah), I will give you more (of My Blessings), but if you are thankless (i.e. disbelievers), verily! My Punishment is indeed severe.”

Ibrahim Chapter

Verse 7

Best wishes🌷

The wisdom of 5 prayers in Islam🌷

Muslims perform prayers Five times a day.

Allah Almighty had a purpose for Commanding the Muslims to physically, mentally and spiritually worship him 5 times everyday and for a total of 15 to 20 minutes. The distribution of Prayers throughout the day helps the Muslim to (1) Reconnect with Allah Almighty and to cleanse away any sin build ups in him; (2) To constantly take a physical and mental break from his daily stress; and (3) To keep the body muscles physically stretched, energized and in minimum shape. Of course, if one wants to be more muscular, then he needs to work out more to gain the maximum shape.

All of this, if done on regular and daily basis, would eventually lead to a better personality that is hard to be intimidated, and is sporty and easy going. Such personality would also lead to prosper and success.

The Wisdom that Allah Almighty had for the 5-daily Prayers, had been psychologically and scientifically proven to be a Great One. Allah Almighty certainly Knows what’s best for us, and if we only follow His Holy Commands by the letter, then our lives would be much better.


Religion and fear. 🍃

Some people say( You follow a religion because you are afraid of hell…so,fear is the reason for your following a certain religion)

My reply is as follows:

I follow Islam not because of fear of hell.

Fear is not the reason.

Love is the reason in fact.


I love life.

And because I love life..I have to live it in the best way.

And the best way to live life is to have a healthy system to follow in my life.

So my religion is my healthy system that helps me to live.

Why religion(Islam) is a healthy system?

Because it is made by God (Allah).

And because I trust God..I trust his system which is religion.