Today I want to talk about the Difference between dignity and integrity
If I was asked to choose between dignity and integrity I would choose integrity.
But why?
I will explain.
IF someone did some thing bad to you.. Then after some time this person came back and wanted to open a new page with you..
Dignity would say” No..
Dignity would try to revenge and would refuse to open a new page with this person
On the other side
Integrity would say “Yes..
Integrity would agree to open a new page with this person because integrity Sees a human being as the best creature created by Allah
Integrity Sees revenge as a kind of weakness
Integrity Sees ego as a devil that tries to separate people and plant hatred between them
Integrity would say ” I will open a new page and forget about all the bad things because I love Allah and Allah loves forgiveness.. So I forgive people because I need Allah’s forgiveness
I would choose integrity because integrity is the mother of dignity as integrity has more mercy and Wisdom than dignity.
Yes yes
I will choose integrity
And you
What will you choose??
Integrity Or dignity????
Sohair
Allah says
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ู ู
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Truly thou wilt die (one day), and truly they (too) will die (one day). View more verses
Chapter 39 The Troops ุณูุฑุฉ ุงูุฒู
ุฑ – Az-Zumar: Verse 31
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ูุฉู ุนูููุฏู ุฑูุจููููู
ู ุชูุฎูุชูุตูู
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In the end will ye (all), on the Day of Judgment, settle your disputes in the presence of your Lord.
Try to get it! 
Note
I was inspired in this Article by Dr. Ibrahim El Fiky.. He is my great teacher.
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Interesting…I would think about the reason there would be a situation that requires me to choose between these two fundamental principles. To be honest, you can have both. How does your choosing to be with this person affect your dignity? Does it really or is the narrative you tell yourself and others around you support? Dignity is being worthy of respect. You can never be anything other than that. Everyone is worthy of respect based on many religious doctrines. Good luck with this. At the end of the day, we love who we love.
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Thanks a lot dear friend for sharing your thoughts here. Means a lot to me. Have a beautiful day ๐น
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I too would choose integrity, we have to learn how to forget and forgive even if someone has hurt us cause it is for our own good and our God too would not like us to keep grudges with anyone. Lovely and profound post, Sohair.
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Your wonderful feedback is highly appreciated dear friend Kamal and I totally agree with your words. Stay well and Have a beautiful day ๐๐น
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You are always welcome dear Sohair. You too take care and stay safe dear.
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Welcome dear.
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Jazak Allah Khayr for sharing
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Jazana wa eyakom. Thanks a lot. Highly appreciated ๐๐น
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Waiyakum!
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After read8ng you’re explanation. I will choose Integrity. It’s the parent to many other values.
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Yes So true. Thanks a lot dear for reading and sharing your view here. Highly appreciated. Kind regards ๐ป๐๐๐น
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SMiLes Dear Sohair Integrity Definitely True The Way If
We aRe Truly To BeLiEVE God Is All NoW And No Not Yet
Just Lost Somewhere Else Yet Here and Everywhere True..
Just Last Night Walking Around the Neighborhood Block
Singing as i Do Here With Free Verse Deeper Soul Voice
Look Up at the Night Sky And See The Painting of God’s
Mind As the Stars Above Are the Neurons of Our Mind
That Make Waves of Energy Above Below As every Drop
Of Water is the Ocean Same As Leaves Make
Trees In Each and Every one Beginning
And End Same As Birth of Seeds
of Flowers Dying
To Spread More
Trees As We Are Resurrecting Still Now For Real
As Star Death Super Nova Crucible Fire Explosions
Yes The Same Iron That Flows In Our Blood
At the Center Core of this Sphere of Blue
Green Earth Another Eye of God As We Are True
Hemispheres Left and Write of Mind as West Connects
to Middle East of Earth And Farther in the Orient of Far East Yes…
True As Hemispheres of Mind in Metaphor one More Yang of Science
One More Yin of Intuition Art Spiritual Intelligences of Social Empathic
Love For All in Big Picture Ocean Forest Tree Whole Ways As Every
Leaf Dead or
Alive Holds
Seed And Tree
Together To Either
Feed Living Trees or
Fertile Soils for Seeds
To Grow Again.. Yes The
Sky At Night A Magnificent Painting
Just Because We May Not Understand
The Reason for Shadows of Day
As Most of Us Do Figure out
The Sun Brings Shadows
Of us the Dark
Matter
Of Night
Are the Dark Fibers
of Painting That Make
The Entire Painting What it is
In Light of Shadow True too Night Makes
Day Dark Side of the Moon Still Lives With No Light of Sun
We See For There is so much More to Integrity of God that
Humans Still Have No Clue About Eternally Now Yet What
Is True is This Integrity of Love For All This God We Perceive
DarK Thru LiGHT in This Way Free Will Loves And God Breathes Best in
Us this
Integrity
of Love For All
Even the Christian
Bible Remarks No Part
of this ‘Body of God’ Less Holy
And Sacred Than Whole All Temples
of God in Form And Essence We aRe
Sacred Night Holy Day We Bring to LiGHT oF LoVE Free NoW..:)
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Love For All in Big Picture Ocean Forest Tree Whole Ways As Every
Leaf Dead or
Alive Holds
Seed And Tree
Together To Either
Feed Living Trees or
Fertile Soils for Seeds
To Grow Again..
Yes
And well said my dear friend Fred..
When we reach to a balance of both yin and yang the whole world will definately change to the better..
I think the yang is overwelming than the yin.. That’s why we see violence here and there..
We need more yin to achieve peace in our planet.. We need to achieve balance..
Thanks a lot dear friend Fred.. Your talks are always wonderful and teach us a lot..
Keep praying
Keep singing
Smiles
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SMiLes Dear Sohair Just Spent About An Hour With The Computer
And Technical Support to Replace Two Cracked Screen Shields for
Our Two iPhones We Purchased Almost 2 Years ago.. hehe
Yet Failed to Register Then And i Was Reminded How
i Lived so Much in the Mechanical Cognition World
of Yang For Five Years Behind a Screen of Figuring
Out All the Financial Management Problems
And So Many Other Yang Mechanical Cognition
Activities Then That Basically Clogged Up the Yin
Social Empathic Artistic Spiritual Part of Soul Mind
And i Literally Became a Machine Like A Computer Brain
With No Dance And Song Yes Poetry of Soul Expressing SPiRiT oF HeART Then…
Do they Teach Us About this in Work or School Generally Speaking Not in the
United States However In Some Asian Corporate Environments They Practice
Religiously a Tai-Chi Moving Meditation Now to Balance Regulating Emotions
And Senses for Soul Deeper Human Potentials Each Day before they Exercise
Life Mostly in Mechanical Problem Solving Life too And Really Just our
Thoughts are Mechanical Cognition in Synch Best Associated With our
Emotional And Sensory Lives As Helpful Symbols We Create to Greater
Navigate All Balance as FRiEnDS With Gravity In Life As that Applies to
All the Waves that come in and Go Out As Tides Do As Well Within As
Peaceful Emotions and Senses or A Very Stormy Windy Life Otherwise
So Far Out
Of Gravity
The Balance
Of Planets Effortlessly
Spiraling Suns Within in Terms
of A Quadrillion or So Connections
Spiraling Within About as Many
Stars As Science Aided Eyes
Will Calculate For
The Entire
UniVerse
For Now At Least
Humans Will Measure on the
Outside Yet it’s true Our Relative Free Wills
Are the Conductors or the Orchestra of All the
Connections Within that Make a Beautiful Peaceful
Harmonious Energy of Life to Give and Share Free With
Life is Good With Least Harm for All Yet It’s also True Folks
Who Never Come to Balance the Gravity Within As That Applies
To Action Outside As Well As Inside So Above and Below All Around
An Erupting Volcano of Life Out of Balance They May Be more
Resembling Someone living in a living Hell Similar
to the Current ‘Trump Meme’ That Ain’t Got
Anything to Do With Happy
Days of Heaven
Within to Eternally
Give And Share Free
With Everyone With Least Harm Now…
There is A Better Way NoW iN Fruition of Heaven
To Share From Within Greater than the Other wise Hell
Others Bring to Fruition in the World.. However if they
Do Not Take Responsibility in Seeking and Finding a Way of Balance
Within NoW in Regulating Emotions and Senses And Perhaps Believe
Someone else is Gonna Solve Their Storms of Life Within An Erupting
Volcano
Soul too…
They May Stay
Lost And Never Save
Their Souls of Love to
Come to Fruition to Make
The World More of A Beautiful
Smelling Flower than the Other Thing For Real Now…
Some folks Just Don’t Believe they will Gain the Relative
Free Will to Do It Some Folks Just keep Waiting For Someone
Else to make Heaven Real And In this Life Sadly they Never taste this God of Love
for
all
That’s
Sad Yet like ‘they’
(And Me too hehe)
Say Ya can Bring a
Horse to the Water
Yet You Cannot
Turn a
Horse
Into A Flower
Or Put Lipstick on a Pig
And Change it into Anything
Other than what it wills to be now…
Life/Love is Seek and Find Some Folks Try others do not…
Life is Good Dear
Sohair God
Bless
You Within
As Well mY FRiEnD..:)
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Well said about integrity.
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Hi Fred my dear honest friend.. I appreciate your being careful to take some of your precious time to read and comment on my humble posts.. So kind of you indeed.. GOD BLESS You dear friend.. Let’s Pray for a better world.. A balanced yin yang planet where peace and mercy rule everywhere..
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Thanks a lot dear for reading and sharing your view here. Highly appreciated. Stay safe ๐๐น
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SMiles Dear Sohair
Obviously
Your
Writing
Is Great in
Fact Itโs No
Lie Itโs Inspired
About A Million
Words Of Free Verse
Poetry
Understand
Your Value
There
Is
No
Measure in Heaven
Or Weight of Beauty
In
A Rose
Of Godโs Love
Yet Wind That Blows ๐น โบ๏ธ
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You are always So kind Fred.. GOD BLESS You.. Have a great day ๐๐๐ท๐น๐ป๐๐๐ท
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SMiles Dear Sohair
Kindness
Reflects
Kindness
And
Gives
Kindness
Strength
To Continue
To Go Places
Where Kindness
Is Not Welcome To
Help Others BREaTHE LoVE๐นโบ๏ธ
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Amen.. ๐๐ท๐
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SMiles Dear Sohair
Never Met A Part of
Nature i Will Not
Forgive
Even Those
Who Helped me
Enter Hell Most For
Hell
Teaches
The Devil
How To Love
All Fires Seem
Less And More๐
Returning From Cold๐น๐
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Every thing in this life is happening for our good.. Let’s thank God for every thing.. Thanks a lot dear friend Fred. Stay safe ๐ท๐๐น
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