Get out of the triangle..

The pain triangle..

I will explain it..

The pain triangle consists of three things..

To be..

1. The saviour

2. The excutioner

3. The victim

If you don’t want to suffer from pain in your shouldn’t play the three roles I mentioned above..


1..Everyone one of us has a free will..

Everyone is responsible for his soul..

We are not created here to save people…

We should save ourselves first..

2…Also, we should not play the role of the excutioner who always judge other people and criticizes them..

We should criticise ourselves first and try to improve ourselves…

3…We should not act the role of the victim also..and throw the reason of our faults on other people..

We are not victims..

We are responsible for our faults..we should carry the responsibility of our deeds by ourselves…we shouldn’t blame people for our faults..

In brief..we come alone to this world and we will leave it alone also..

And in the day of judgement..we will stand alone in front of God..he will ask us about our deeds…not other people’s deeds..

Allah says…


And everyone of them will come to Him(Allah) singly on the Day of Judgment.

17 thoughts on “Get out of the triangle..

  1. Price of Relative Free Will
    is Responsibility for our Actions
    no matter How Difficult it is to Regulate our
    Emotions And Integrate Our Senses and to Understand
    that if not for the Grace of our Fortunes in Life we surely could
    be in Much Different Shoes now.. which really doesn’t leave us much room to
    Judge.. and then Yes.. truly while we can do our best to help others with the Divine
    Love You Described We can never assure ourselves We will Save the Individual but
    What We will do at best is be Kind the Best We Can with Divine and Forgiving Love
    so true unless
    one lives in a
    State of Being
    that is Divine
    Love These three
    things can and will
    be so hard to do.. as one may
    Lose Patience… Patience is a Key
    to So much in Life but anyway i surely
    will relate to the Pain Triangle of the Savior
    The Executioner and the Victim by the Grace of
    God We Do Breathe Love not to fall to the Negative Aspects of those roles..:)

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  2. Everyday is like a day of judgement in one way or the other because individuals get what they give or put out …If you give love , you receive it sooner or later …
    God is timeless spaceless and formless and so is judgement in the now here always …
    God guide us always to goodness , love and light …

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    1. وَيَسْتَعْجِلُونَكَ بِالْعَذَابِ وَلَن يُخْلِفَ اللَّهُ وَعْدَهُ ۚ وَإِنَّ يَوْمًا عِندَ رَبِّكَ كَأَلْفِ سَنَةٍ مِّمَّا تَعُدُّونَ (47)
      سورة الحج
      صدق الله العظيم


      1. God is beyond time , beyond space , and the day of judgement is like the evolution of life eternally …
        I think heaven or paradise , is like feeling good for being a loving good-mannered person …

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      2. Yes ..we can feel heaven while we are here in this life..heaven is inside us..or that’s what I believe in ..


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