I just need to talk..so I will talk and talk ..may be I will be better after that..
Relationships need balance to be successful..
Friends and couples should create balance in their relationships to be successful..
When I send my friend a massage and ask for her/him..when I care..when I miss her /him…when I forgive a mistake..l should also be treated the same way by my friend..
When balance disappears from relations ..disappointment is the result..
You feel that you are lost..
You feel that your friend is just like a selfish child who wants his mother to take care of him because he is her gift from God..
You feel that your friend wants you to thank God that you are blessed of having him in your life..
Isn’t that a selfish person?
How can We make relationships with selfish people who want to take and do not want to give..
When you ask them why are they acting this way..they remind you of what you said before .
What did I say?
I said that I do everything for the sake of God..so I should take care of my friend and expect nothing..
How silly..
Allah says ..
Yes
This is called balance in relationships..
We are not created in this world to be a medicine..we are humans..we feel like others feel..we need care and love as they need care and love…
In this kind of relation you find that your friend is not only selfish but also has a great ego in his character..
Ego ..yes..Ego..
When you mistake ..you should be punished several times for one mistake. ..
When your friend mistake..you should forgive him and let go…
You should thank God several times if he did something Good for you..yes ..this is a great blessing …you should be grateful..oh my God…I should be grateful..
I do not need your friendships..I do not need to be a medicine in your life .I am a human being…who feels as you feel ..
That’s why I lost a lot of friends in the last few years..I feel better without them..they wasted my time and my health…their high ego made them treat me with no mercy…they revenge and revenge and revenge and their revenge has no end…
They will stop revenge in two cases..
The first when I leave their hands and go away..
The second when they hear about my death…
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Try to get it! 
Imbalance in relationships is difficult. I’ll be honest, I tend to monitor my feelings and if I feel I’m more invested than the other person, I step back a bit and withdraw. Not entirely, but to the point that I feel there is balance again. Often the person doesn’t seem to notice and I realize that I was too invested. I don’t have much patience for those who call only with problems but are not there for me or at other times just to enjoy one another’s company.
I’m sorry that you’re struggling with this, Sohair.
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Hi Chris..thanks a lot for the great comment..I know you are an expert in such things..I totally agree with you..best regards⚘🙏
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I wouldn’t say I’m an expert. 😂I’ve just been around a while and have made my share of mistakes to get to this point. 😉
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Thanks again Chris dear friend 😊😊
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We all do better, feel better, when people are kind to us. If “friends” are unkind, especially over and over, it doesn’t feel much like friendship. Here’s hoping you will feel better – and find true friends.
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HAha Sohair the World WiLL Be Such
A Beautiful Place if We all Respect Each
Other as Highest Saints of God Incarnate
ALWaYS But True We Are Human We have
Limits and not
everyone
Will be
Sohair
And Fred
And Xenia
And Frank
hAha.. i’ve come across literally
Thousands of People in Interactions
online and that makes Three of You who
Puts Humanity First this way without fail
and nah none of the others have any
‘real excuse’ as none of them work
harder than me or you 24/7 now
For All that Life Requires Dark
thru Light but true
they do have
one excuse
that is so true
none of them are
Us who See God in
Every Human Being Worthy
For Human Response without Fail
True this is partly Innate of Human Spirit
Born but more it is the foundation of Love and
Grace in Balance that makes Will And Strength
That Drives Love Most… We LiVE iN A ‘World’ WHeRe
Mostly the reality.. no matter Church, State, or School,
or Work This now is mostly the least of all worries where likes
follows and shares just shoulder An Additional Money Burden of Rewards more
than the Humanity of Human HeART that touches more.. my Mother Raised
me/us never to believe anything is more important than Love yet sadly she
restricted that Love to Only Her two Children as her Days on Earth counted
Down.. and sadly so lost in Stress at Work for Decades i was not nearly as strong
as You for when i had those responsibilities i had little left of Love then not even
enough for my Lovely Wife at Home..
i was Weaker and
now i am
Stronger
Yes i made
Money then ‘Big Time’
so much but i made smaller
Love of the Unconditional
Variety enough that makes
A Muscle of Love Olympic in
Size of Quantity and Quality same..
for me i will never judge anyone as much as Humanly possible
for not being me for true i have not always been me now either..
but of course it is always nice to Receive Love Back now too in
Equal Balance of Return yet on the other Hand it is the Lover
who Gives most in
Pure Love
who rises
highest
in the
SKin they
Wear of God
there is no place
Higher to Give and Share
in LiGHT.. but so much harder
when one is swamped in the Darkness
that does often come ‘these days’ in Responsibilities
We must meet to survive.. i for one believe you are amazing..
Oh yeah.. and i will be adding another Church song soon to Youtube
Singing ‘Center of my Life’ and while this Song is all about Worshipping
A Man who teaches that Least is first in other words the one who is not worshipped
Yet gives Love most is Greatest as Last is First in the Kingdom of Love like i described
above that is an All Natural Reality of Human co-Experienced around the World
for those who Self-Actualize Ascend and Transcend Where the Center of
Life becomes Agape love to give and share to all where all Walls
And Ceilings and Floors of Temples that are Mortar and Brick
Fall Away where all that is left and right is the Pure
Spirit of Love Within
that is the
Light
The Greatest
Force That Human
Has ever described in
Art as LiVInG LiGHT WiTHIN
Surely worthy of a Greater Name
than God Surely Greater than All
Names for This God that is Love
is beyond ALL Abstract
Constructed
Measure
but one will Feel and
Sense (God) in a Dance
or Song (God) is unmistakable
And Real No matter What Form (God) comes in now…
No Man or Woman No Thing is the Center of my Life but (Love)
which just means i have more to give and share to others this
is the Meaning and Purpose Holy and Sacred of Human Life this
is the Capstone of the Pyramids in Egypt the Beauty The Wisdom Eye
i for one ‘See’
of Courage
that
is Love
that Breathes
And Never Dies
now ‘the Center of my Life’
to Give and Share Holy and Sacred
Free with no restraints now of smaller
loves or hates that fear away from Hope..
i am only Human i must practice this Art of
Love all WaKinG And Sleeping Hours to Keep the
Greatest Gift to
Give/Share
for true
i could
go back
to Hell again
Away from this
place of Heaven too
as God (Love) Will Surely
Spit Us Out if We Do Not Do 100 Percent LoVE NoW..
Smiles.. It’s A Beautiful World of FoRTuNE i LiVE iN That
Provides this Avenue now so rare and Beautiful i realize how FoRTuNaTE i AM..:)
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Thanks a lot for sharing your opinion here..best regards 🌼
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Hi Fred..how have you been..great poem as usual..totally agree with you..
Blessings..😊😊😊🌹🌹🙏
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Hi Dear Sohair i am doing Very Well and Life
is Always Great with Dear FRiEnDS Like You
Truly i was hoping to move out of my rather
‘Dead Locality’ to meet some folks
who really wanted Human
Interaction more
than a life
of Likes
And Shares
And Only Follows
as that has become a metaphor
for the Age We LiVE iN hehe i surprise
with replies and some days it’s almost
Like Replies are no longer part of the
Human Species yet they are as that
is only a DisEase of Humanity
as People Look Down
At Screens
And
Miss HeART
oF Life that’s Warm
anyway pleased to
be here my FRiEnD..:)
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Thanks again Fred..you are not just a screen friend..you are a kind soul in my small world and a bliss of Allah..smiles my dear friend 😊⚘⚘⚘
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Smiles Sohair as much as i Critique Aspects of Technology
It was also definitely my Savior too as a Shut-in my
Home for 66 Months there was no choice but
to become an ‘Avatar’ online Organic
as i could Possibly Make
Words into Feelings
And Senses as
my Reality
in Flesh
And Blood
Was A Misery
And Suffering
too much to ever
serve Justice to
Put into Words…
Yes in this way Online
likely saved.. my Life
i surely don’t mind the
Nerds and Geeks in this
World who helped to Save my Soul too..
Everyone a Part of God My FRiEnD and even online too..:)
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Yes.well said Fred😊⚘
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Thanks a lot Ian dear friend..best regards 🌹⚘
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Oh wow, this hits the center of my soul very sharply and deeply, Sohair. What you have written speaks to me very poignantly, directly and honestly. Of course, I have been disappointed in relationships ~ none too few ~ but after reading what you’ve written I find I must ask myself, “Am I truly a friend, brother, companion, soul mate … or do I fall far short because I tend to be self-centered, self-interested and, thus, blind to the needs and desires of those closest to me?” What you have written is so true … but it convicts me. How often have I only sought for someone to be little more than medicine in my life … salve for my wounds … fulfillment for my own emptiness, all without offering anything much in return??? Wow! God forgive me, change me, and let me live the remainder of my life in true love, generosity, kindness, understanding and peace. Thank you so much for your precious words! God bless you!
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God bless you too dear friend….I am happy to know that my words touched you…Best wishes and best regards 💕😊⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘
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You are certainly welcome, and thank you again… I look forward to listening (reading) to you more!
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😊⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
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And with a great light God shows us where our pain is. Those who we react to are exposing our fears to show us we are not happy when we are treated in a certain way.
This is done with a great love so that we can discover why we hold these fears and once we understand them we will finally be set free of a cage that we had built around the emotions and pain of those fears.
But this journey has great purpose so that we will, in that understanding, appreciate what we have endured to find our truth. Which is to find our love, the one love we had blocked all of our lives by those walls. And in that understanding to see that beauty that has been gently waiting within, that love we have searched for all of our lives, that happiness that we have always wanted, is that love we had blocked for so long…our love ❤️
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Thanks a lot dear..highly appreciated 🌹⚘😊
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🙏🏽 🌷 🌻 😀
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