Back biting or Gheeba..

Gheeba is the Arabic translation of back biting..

It means unpleasant or cruel talk about someone who is not present..

Those who talk in front of you about other people..will definitely talk about you badly someday..

Back biting is described in Islam as if someone is eating the flesh of someone else who is dead..

This image really reflects how awful it is to talk badly in the back of someone else.

If you sit in a place and you listen for someone who is back biting another should react positively..defend that person or advise that person to stop talking or leave the place and go away..

Because if you listen to back biting and do not make any reaction…be sure that you are sharing in that bad behaviour…

I advise my self and every one who reads..

( Be positive..and share not in back biting..)

Allah says..

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ ۖ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلَا يَغْتَبْ بَعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا ۚ أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ ۚ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَحِيمٌ

O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And obey Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful.

Al Hojorat chapter..verse12..


17 thoughts on “Back biting or Gheeba..

  1. Back Biting With Slander and Gossip that may or may not
    be true about another Human is so common a practice
    among Human Beings trying to move up their position in
    a dominance hierarchy.. the Back Biting With Slander at max
    is on Full Public Display on Twitter from a So-Called Leader
    of A Free World.. and this makes the Practice seen from the top
    as an example some folks are more willing to practice seeing it comes
    from an other wise respected Position than those who are secure in themselves
    who will feel no need to Harm
    others this way to Vault
    them into a Higher
    Position as they
    don’t have to
    Play a Dominance
    Hierarchy game to fill
    and empty space within..
    Usually people who are loved well
    as Children may other wise feel an Unconditional
    Social Bonding Feeling of Oxytocin well Nourished
    from Birth and on.. sadly some people feel more empty
    also Jockeying for Promotions now in Dominance Hierarchy
    in the Work Place and Even School too.. as far as who is most
    Popular and the such as that.. but again filled and feeled from
    Within it makes no reason to do this as usually when People are
    it is coming from an Emptier place within seeking to fill that void..
    Ironically too.. people tend to bond with Oxytocin doing this in groups
    too.. so for some folks there is almost no escape doing this day in and out….
    A Common
    that only we
    as individuals
    will decide not
    to be part of and that
    too.. may mean exclusion from
    the Group by Defending the Common
    Enemy who isn’t really doing anything wrong too..
    the examples of this in Politics in the United States
    is at highest case-study Level now for the Entire World to View..
    Anyway there is a better way the Cooperation of really Caring Love
    for Everyone
    including the
    other wise Them
    Who is really Us overall..
    Again Hope Your Evening
    is Growing Joy Dear Sohair Friend..:)

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    1. Hi Fred..thanks a lot for Fred’s precious talk..yes..its all about love..lack of self love for some folks leads to severe social problems..and sometimes worldwide suffering..
      Peace be with you dear Fred..
      Stay well..stay healthy..

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    1. Good evening Fred…I looked in the spam section but couldn’t find that seems that you deleted it with no intention..
      Your comments are always welcomed Fred and add a lot of light to my blog..


      1. Haha so i will write it again..
        Love For God Begins within
        Even on a Desert Island With
        No Books No Cameras No Pages
        No Written Words Just the Breathe
        of God We Love each and Every Day
        As Gift Then
        As we
        From Nature
        of God.. God fades
        from our View a Bit
        And the View may be
        Replaced by Unlimited Cultural
        Clothes we Co-Create or make
        Solitary as we spin our Webs
        Away from Nature’s Breath
        Within the Wind to
        Color LoVE iN
        Co-Creativity More
        Yet that is also what
        We Do with Cultural Clothes
        for Sure as Religions Color God
        Uniquely as Nature they will too..
        Smiles my Friend From: Desert Isle
        to: All of Us Love For God Starts Within
        And Branches out as Tree of Life Greater
        of God we come to Perceive from Birth through Leaves
        all the Thorns and Flowers of Life we come to see and
        Be As Well and Not so well too as Dark Makes Light.. True
        An opposite of Self Soul Love unafraid to reach and touch
        other Human HeARTs without Fear is Timid Soul Fire of Spirit
        Soul of God Within not just flicker flame torch or even Bonfire
        Star of
        Even more
        As We Light
        With God Within
        to Give and Share more
        Doing least Harm to others
        And the Rest of Nature God
        That Passes our way smiles a Cardinal
        Just Landed Perched upon my Window
        Seal Looking For More Colors of Red from
        A Friend Still to come.. Smiles my Friend
        All Colors of God are Signs for us to See and Love..:)

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