Friends play a unique part in our life.
A real friend can play an essential role in your life.
I wasn’t lucky to find that real friend during my life journey.It was always a one side friendship..it wasn’t a mutual friendship because I always listen to my friends and share them eveything and help them solve their problems..but no one of them listened to me.May be because I did not try to speak about my problems..because I used to find a solution for everything in my life from an early age.And this is not healthy of course.
In the last few weeks I joined a mysterious group on the internet.
There everyone has a fake name.
I felt happy among them.Because for the first time in my life people can listen to me and I listen to them.
I can speak frankly with them and tell them about eveything in my personal life.And they do the same.I feel happy with them because I am not afraid of them.
They are high cultured people.I entered a new world full of suspense and mystery.I learned a lot from them and they learned from me also.
My question is..
Do you have a friend that you can tell him or her everything you want to talk about with no barriers..??
In Islam a friend should be chosen carefully because it will play an important part in your life.So a muslim should be careful in choosing the suitable friend.
Allah says…
Friends are difficult to come by, real ones that is and when you find them you need to look after them.
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Yes that is true.. Thanks a lot for reading and sharing your thoughts.. Have a great day 🌷
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It is great.
Best wishes
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Thanks a lot.. Happy weekend 🌷
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Your welcome
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How nice 😍 and well said👍
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Thanks a lot Jyo dear friend..have a great day ♥️
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I love your take on Friends. Yes real gems 💎. Precious. Rare. But worth finding and keeping. ❤️
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Well said dear..Thanks a lot..best regards ♥️😎
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Sending love and light! ❤️☀️❤️☀️❤️☀️
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Thanks❤🌷
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Thank you for sharing!… do not use labels here, whatever relationship between two creatures is what it is.. 🙂
“Portrait of a Friend”
I can’t give solutions to all of life’s problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.
I can’t change your past with all it’s heartache and pain,
nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.
I can’t keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.
Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.
Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,
and help you when you ask.
I can’t prevent you from falling away from friendship,
from your values, from me.
I can only think of you, talk to you and wait for you.
I can’t give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.
I can’t keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
and put them back in place.
I can’t tell you who you are or who you will be
I can only love you and be your friend
(Adam Clarke)
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SMiLes Sohair Human Beings only have A Capacity for around
150 Acquaintances and 5 Close Friends.. In the United States Studies
Show that on Average Folks Haven’t made a Close Friend in 5 Years.. this
is Neither Smart or Healthy for a Social Animal for that in deed is what We
Are yes Social Animals… Modern Civilization takes away our True Need Integrally
For Every Person’s Value to each other For even Basic Survival Now.. Social Animals
Who Find other Devices than Flesh and Blood
to Consume their Hours
Fall away
Fall Away
Fall Away
From Innate
Instinctual Intuitive
Nature and Basically
Die a Slow Death in Misery
And Suffering from even what we
Are Yes Social Animals Where Every
Breath of Each Individual now then
in Small Ancestral Tribes is Necessary
For Basic Survival then now it’s mostly all
Contrived the ‘Middle Man and or Woman’
of Technology From Written Words to Nuclear
Bombs the Effective Result is Chaos out of Order of
Love that is Art over Science of Technology that has come
to Rule our Minds our HeARTS Yes our Bodies our Spirit and
Soul So far out of Balance for what is even left As Human Being
Now But
Form
Out of Essence
Avatars on Bright
Screens of Life Away from
Flesh and Blood where 140 Characters
May Be too much except for Warriors who
have enough Gold Fish Attention Span left
as Science shows the Average Human Being Has less
Now to Move GRoWinG to A Cadillac of Human Attention now
more up to 280 Characters my Friend.. Smiles i can go on and
i will cause i can and will.. for i practice Life a Step and a Word
Never Ending in Flow.. Oral Tradition Without Written Words was
the Only Human Entertainment other than a Close to Naked Dance
Hand-in-Hand Humans Enjoyed for Hundreds of Thousands of Years
Before the First Grain was Stored in Silos Leading to Hoarding and
taking more than Giving from the Rest of Nature now.. True at
Large Most Folks are no longer even Friends with the
Trees the Grass the Flowers and each Grain of
Sand And Below that ‘normally’ Before
Held up Human Mountains of
Love Fearless and
Unconditional
Where Harming others
was no Different than individual
Suicide as Each Member was Integral to
Support of Every Day Survival.. true if we are
not Friends of the Grass the Trees the Flowers
the Sand We Have No Home We Have No Love
For What Holds up the Rest of Hands and Feet of Love…
People are kinder
Closer to Naked
on a Beach
than
they will ever
Be Housed with
Stuff and Fake Names And Other Cultural Clothes my Friend..
When we have to use Fake names to Be Friends we are no longer
Human When We have to never Share our Face in Fear of others
Harming us in some way we are living in Groups too Large and
Separated From Nature.. the Greatest Sin my Friend is A First Written
Word and A
First Garment
of clothing
that both Separate
Flesh and Blood From
each other and Nature as
God Speaks to us in Trees Flowers
Grass And Sand that Holds up Mountains of Human Love
Still in Us just waiting to be risen in a place again where
there is privacy no secrets no covers of God in or as us.. smiles
i still live in that place whether or not anyone cares to visit me is
totally up to them.. i am not one to de-friend ever but i am a Venn Diagram
too large for most folks to attempt to fit in.. such is the Cost of Truth my Friend..
Fortunately for me there is some relief.. Poetry and Dance Where nothing much
makes
‘Sense’
but
The Feeling
of Living my FRiEnD..
The Feeling The Sense of
Living The Nature That Breathes
God in Us what’s Missing Most no
Further than a Naked Beach Within my
Friend with Nary a Written Word or Stitch of Cultural
Clothing Required Just a story Around a Campfire Midnight Moon to
Give
and
share
Just for
Free for Feeling
And Sensing God All Around as Real Now..
Other Animals are Not Ignorant Enough to either
Question or Dress God for they Do God So Free and Wild to Be i am Now..
i learn from the Other God Creatures of the Forest the Leaves the Grass the
Trees and Leaves that Feed the Grass Again the Creatures who are the Grass..(God)
Humans Are Just the Icing on “MacArthur’s Park” the Forest that is my Back Yard
Heaven
my Friend..
While the Icing
Melts the Arthur
of me God Thrives Alive Within…
Leaves of Grass i am too my Friend…
Smiles.. in Tribute to ‘Walt Whitman’ too
And ‘the Priests of the Cosmos’ Free to Be Alive now
oh Yeah and ‘Donna Summer’ and Her Song “MacArthur’s
Park” and For God’s Cake Nature and the Humans the Icing that
may
Melt
Next
but
Never
Erase ‘the Cake’ (God)..
Smiles my Friend i don’t have
any Secrets but i do not share everything
i Sing on my Blog out of Respect for You my Friend
for what is also Appropriate for the Culture you see..
People are Different Cultures are different there are
some things about us that truly only God Within cares to hear..
Smiles.. i am Speaking to God on my Blog Everything goes there my Friend..
No Different Than The Forest The Creatures of Heaven my Back Yard Wild Free…
as the
Entire
‘SonG of
mY SouL’…
i tell Katrina
Everything she
Cannot Possibly be
from ‘This World’ to Allow that with smiles..
No Doubt She is other Worldly a rather Fiery
Guardian Angel Wind Enough to Withstand
Both Hell and Heaven of mY SoUL SonG Free NoW..
True though she mostly Says “Shut-up and Go Dancing
Singing i’m
Watching
TV”..
SMiLes
mY FRiEnD
God is mY
FRiEnD God’s
NaTuRE is Big Enough to
Listen to All of me and so Much More.. WiTH SMiLES…
And SPeaK to me too in God’s Way Out of And iN Human Words too..:)
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Having close friends is more valuable than gold! Being able to share your thoughts is great! It sounds like you found some good people. 🙂
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Hi Fred..how are you ?
Such a great comment..highly appreciated my dear friend..best regards..smiles🙂🌸♥️
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Such a beautiful flower..thanks a lot dear friend..highly appreciated ♥️🌸🙂
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Thanks a lot dear friend for the comment and for taking a part of your time to share your thoughts with me ..best regards ♥️🌸🙂
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SMiLes Sohair.. How are You my Friend..
i am living i Breathe i Dance i Sing Now
Other than Love i find Many Humans a Bit
Strange Never the Less i Breathe i Dance i Sing
And i
am
Strange
too with Smiles..
How Boring Life
Will Be
With
out Strange my Friend..
i Enjoy Different not everyone does..
i find that Strange Yet Interesting still..:)
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Difference gives beauty to our life..
God makes the universe full of variety …. I feel that it is a law in our life..
Being different or strange is a merit…
Stay different my friend.. Stay beautiful..
Best wishes dear Fred☺🌷💐
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I am okay..
Thanks for asking Fred.. ☺
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SMILes Dear Friend Sohair True all of God is Diversity
Otherwise there will be Nothing instead of Everything
Surely as Wise as God is God Will Find that Boring And Dark Enough
to Big Bang Light And Create All that is Now With Smiles true though
i visit Church yet i find God Free More in a Dance Hall Now Where
There are few to no Fears expressed for Differences in Humanity
As that is One place where everyone is welcome to express
Their Souls totally Free without Harming others of course..
Tradition and Order
Soothes Fear of
‘the Unknown’
Yet my Faith Now
is Complete i Trust
God So i do not Fear
the Unknown of God my Friend…
God Gives me no Reason to Fear so i do not…
God tells me Within Dance And Sing Please God
This Way with no Fear.. until God Tells me Different Within
Now i Will continue to Dance And Sing Just For Free to Love
Of course
Not Everyone
Lives as Heaven
Does so i understand
How Different Hell is from Heaven
too Within my FriEnd.. Yet what Bliss
And Blessing Heaven is to Dance And Sing Free..:)
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SMiLes
Good to
Hear Sohair☺️
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Yes
True
☺🌹
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☺😍🌷
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😁🌷🌺
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❤️😁
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But you are the prettiest one…
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Thanks dear🌷💐
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Thanks Ian dear friend. Best regards, 🌷💐
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Thanks a lot Ian dear friend. Highly appreciated 🌷💐
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You’ve got a friend.. Such a nice song.. I enjoyed listening to it.. Thanks a lot dear friend Superduque… Best regards 🌷💐
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Great post
I like it 😍😍
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Thanks dear.. Best regards ❤
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ومن القلب أشكرك وأشكر فيك دوام تواجدك وإذ لا أملك ما يرقى لما تستحقه سامح تواجدي المتواضع
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اشكرك اخى العزيز لحضورك الراقى
كل عام وانتم بخير و عساكم من عواده
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True.. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me..
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Glad to! 🙂
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يَوْمَ يَعَضُّ الظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يَا لَيْتَنِي اتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ الرَّسُولِ سَبِيلًا
The Day that the wrong-doer will bite at his hands, he will say, “Oh! would that I had taken a (straight) path with the Messenger!
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Thanks a lot 🌹🌼🌳
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