Friends💐🌷

Friends play a unique part in our life.

A real friend can play an essential role in your life.

I wasn’t lucky to find that real friend during my life journey.It was always a one side friendship..it wasn’t a mutual friendship because I always listen to my friends and share them eveything and help them solve their problems..but no one of them listened to me.May be because I did not try to speak about my problems..because I used to find a solution for everything in my life from an early age.And this is not healthy of course.

In the last few weeks I joined a mysterious group on the internet.

There everyone has a fake name.

I felt happy among them.Because for the first time in my life people can listen to me and I listen to them.

I can speak frankly with them and tell them about eveything in my personal life.And they do the same.I feel happy with them because I am not afraid of them.

They are high cultured people.I entered a new world full of suspense and mystery.I learned a lot from them and they learned from me also.

My question is..

Do you have a friend that you can tell him or her everything you want to talk about with no barriers..??

In Islam a friend should be chosen carefully because it will play an important part in your life.So a muslim should be careful in choosing the suitable friend.

Allah says…

وَيَوْمَ يَعَضُّ الظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يَا لَيْتَنِي اتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ الرَّسُولِ سَبِيلًا
The Day that the wrong-doer will bite at his hands, he will say, “Oh! would that I had taken a (straight) path with the Messenger!

(The day here is the last day or the day of judgment)

يَا وَيْلَتَىٰ لَيْتَنِي لَمْ أَتَّخِذْ فُلَانًا خَلِيلًا
“Ah! woe is me! Would that I had never taken such a one for a friend!
لَقَدْ أَضَلَّنِي عَنِ الذِّكْرِ بَعْدَ إِذْ جَاءَنِي ۗ وَكَانَ الشَّيْطَانُ لِلْإِنْسَانِ خَذُولًا
“He did lead me astray from the Message (of Allah) after it had come to me! Ah! the Evil One is but a traitor to man!”

Peace ☺

44 thoughts on “Friends💐🌷

  1. Thank you for sharing!… do not use labels here, whatever relationship between two creatures is what it is.. 🙂

    “Portrait of a Friend”

    I can’t give solutions to all of life’s problems, doubts,
    or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
    search for answers.

    I can’t change your past with all it’s heartache and pain,
    nor the future with its untold stories.
    But I can be there now when you need me to care.

    I can’t keep your feet from stumbling.
    I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.
    Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
    Yet I can share in your laughter.

    Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
    I can only support you, encourage you,
    and help you when you ask.

    I can’t prevent you from falling away from friendship,
    from your values, from me.
    I can only think of you, talk to you and wait for you.

    I can’t give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
    But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
    room to be yourself.

    I can’t keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
    But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
    and put them back in place.

    I can’t tell you who you are or who you will be
    I can only love you and be your friend
    (Adam Clarke)

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    1. Thanks a lot dear friend for the comment and for taking a part of your time to share your thoughts with me ..best regards ♥️🌸🙂

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  2. SMiLes Sohair Human Beings only have A Capacity for around
    150 Acquaintances and 5 Close Friends.. In the United States Studies
    Show that on Average Folks Haven’t made a Close Friend in 5 Years.. this
    is Neither Smart or Healthy for a Social Animal for that in deed is what We
    Are yes Social Animals… Modern Civilization takes away our True Need Integrally
    For Every Person’s Value to each other For even Basic Survival Now.. Social Animals
    Who Find other Devices than Flesh and Blood
    to Consume their Hours
    Fall away
    Fall Away
    Fall Away
    From Innate
    Instinctual Intuitive
    Nature and Basically
    Die a Slow Death in Misery
    And Suffering from even what we
    Are Yes Social Animals Where Every
    Breath of Each Individual now then
    in Small Ancestral Tribes is Necessary
    For Basic Survival then now it’s mostly all
    Contrived the ‘Middle Man and or Woman’
    of Technology From Written Words to Nuclear
    Bombs the Effective Result is Chaos out of Order of
    Love that is Art over Science of Technology that has come
    to Rule our Minds our HeARTS Yes our Bodies our Spirit and
    Soul So far out of Balance for what is even left As Human Being
    Now But
    Form
    Out of Essence
    Avatars on Bright
    Screens of Life Away from
    Flesh and Blood where 140 Characters
    May Be too much except for Warriors who
    have enough Gold Fish Attention Span left
    as Science shows the Average Human Being Has less
    Now to Move GRoWinG to A Cadillac of Human Attention now
    more up to 280 Characters my Friend.. Smiles i can go on and
    i will cause i can and will.. for i practice Life a Step and a Word
    Never Ending in Flow.. Oral Tradition Without Written Words was
    the Only Human Entertainment other than a Close to Naked Dance
    Hand-in-Hand Humans Enjoyed for Hundreds of Thousands of Years
    Before the First Grain was Stored in Silos Leading to Hoarding and
    taking more than Giving from the Rest of Nature now.. True at
    Large Most Folks are no longer even Friends with the
    Trees the Grass the Flowers and each Grain of
    Sand And Below that ‘normally’ Before
    Held up Human Mountains of
    Love Fearless and
    Unconditional
    Where Harming others
    was no Different than individual
    Suicide as Each Member was Integral to
    Support of Every Day Survival.. true if we are
    not Friends of the Grass the Trees the Flowers
    the Sand We Have No Home We Have No Love
    For What Holds up the Rest of Hands and Feet of Love…
    People are kinder
    Closer to Naked
    on a Beach
    than
    they will ever
    Be Housed with
    Stuff and Fake Names And Other Cultural Clothes my Friend..
    When we have to use Fake names to Be Friends we are no longer
    Human When We have to never Share our Face in Fear of others
    Harming us in some way we are living in Groups too Large and
    Separated From Nature.. the Greatest Sin my Friend is A First Written
    Word and A
    First Garment
    of clothing
    that both Separate
    Flesh and Blood From
    each other and Nature as
    God Speaks to us in Trees Flowers
    Grass And Sand that Holds up Mountains of Human Love
    Still in Us just waiting to be risen in a place again where
    there is privacy no secrets no covers of God in or as us.. smiles
    i still live in that place whether or not anyone cares to visit me is
    totally up to them.. i am not one to de-friend ever but i am a Venn Diagram
    too large for most folks to attempt to fit in.. such is the Cost of Truth my Friend..
    Fortunately for me there is some relief.. Poetry and Dance Where nothing much
    makes
    ‘Sense’
    but
    The Feeling
    of Living my FRiEnD..
    The Feeling The Sense of
    Living The Nature That Breathes
    God in Us what’s Missing Most no
    Further than a Naked Beach Within my
    Friend with Nary a Written Word or Stitch of Cultural
    Clothing Required Just a story Around a Campfire Midnight Moon to
    Give
    and
    share
    Just for
    Free for Feeling
    And Sensing God All Around as Real Now..
    Other Animals are Not Ignorant Enough to either
    Question or Dress God for they Do God So Free and Wild to Be i am Now..
    i learn from the Other God Creatures of the Forest the Leaves the Grass the
    Trees and Leaves that Feed the Grass Again the Creatures who are the Grass..(God)
    Humans Are Just the Icing on “MacArthur’s Park” the Forest that is my Back Yard
    Heaven
    my Friend..
    While the Icing
    Melts the Arthur
    of me God Thrives Alive Within…
    Leaves of Grass i am too my Friend…
    Smiles.. in Tribute to ‘Walt Whitman’ too
    And ‘the Priests of the Cosmos’ Free to Be Alive now
    oh Yeah and ‘Donna Summer’ and Her Song “MacArthur’s
    Park” and For God’s Cake Nature and the Humans the Icing that
    may
    Melt
    Next
    but
    Never
    Erase ‘the Cake’ (God)..
    Smiles my Friend i don’t have
    any Secrets but i do not share everything
    i Sing on my Blog out of Respect for You my Friend
    for what is also Appropriate for the Culture you see..
    People are Different Cultures are different there are
    some things about us that truly only God Within cares to hear..
    Smiles.. i am Speaking to God on my Blog Everything goes there my Friend..
    No Different Than The Forest The Creatures of Heaven my Back Yard Wild Free…
    as the
    Entire
    ‘SonG of
    mY SouL’…
    i tell Katrina
    Everything she
    Cannot Possibly be
    from ‘This World’ to Allow that with smiles..
    No Doubt She is other Worldly a rather Fiery
    Guardian Angel Wind Enough to Withstand
    Both Hell and Heaven of mY SoUL SonG Free NoW..
    True though she mostly Says “Shut-up and Go Dancing
    Singing i’m
    Watching
    TV”..
    SMiLes
    mY FRiEnD
    God is mY
    FRiEnD God’s
    NaTuRE is Big Enough to
    Listen to All of me and so Much More.. WiTH SMiLES…
    And SPeaK to me too in God’s Way Out of And iN Human Words too..:)

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      1. SMiLes Sohair.. How are You my Friend..
        i am living i Breathe i Dance i Sing Now
        Other than Love i find Many Humans a Bit
        Strange Never the Less i Breathe i Dance i Sing
        And i
        am
        Strange
        too with Smiles..
        How Boring Life
        Will Be
        With
        out Strange my Friend..
        i Enjoy Different not everyone does..
        i find that Strange Yet Interesting still..:)

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      2. Difference gives beauty to our life..
        God makes the universe full of variety …. I feel that it is a law in our life..
        Being different or strange is a merit…
        Stay different my friend.. Stay beautiful..
        Best wishes dear Fred☺🌷💐

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      3. SMILes Dear Friend Sohair True all of God is Diversity
        Otherwise there will be Nothing instead of Everything
        Surely as Wise as God is God Will Find that Boring And Dark Enough
        to Big Bang Light And Create All that is Now With Smiles true though
        i visit Church yet i find God Free More in a Dance Hall Now Where
        There are few to no Fears expressed for Differences in Humanity
        As that is One place where everyone is welcome to express
        Their Souls totally Free without Harming others of course..
        Tradition and Order
        Soothes Fear of
        ‘the Unknown’
        Yet my Faith Now
        is Complete i Trust
        God So i do not Fear
        the Unknown of God my Friend…
        God Gives me no Reason to Fear so i do not…
        God tells me Within Dance And Sing Please God
        This Way with no Fear.. until God Tells me Different Within
        Now i Will continue to Dance And Sing Just For Free to Love
        Of course
        Not Everyone
        Lives as Heaven
        Does so i understand
        How Different Hell is from Heaven
        too Within my FriEnd.. Yet what Bliss
        And Blessing Heaven is to Dance And Sing Free..:)

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    1. You’ve got a friend.. Such a nice song.. I enjoyed listening to it.. Thanks a lot dear friend Superduque… Best regards 🌷💐

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    1. اشكرك اخى العزيز لحضورك الراقى
      كل عام وانتم بخير و عساكم من عواده

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  3. Reblogged this on © blogfactory and commented:
    يَوْمَ يَعَضُّ الظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يَا لَيْتَنِي اتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ الرَّسُولِ سَبِيلًا
    The Day that the wrong-doer will bite at his hands, he will say, “Oh! would that I had taken a (straight) path with the Messenger!

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