Do not wear black glasses.ln fact life is too short to hide behind your black glasses.Get rid of those ugly glasses…face the world with no fear….face people with their faults .Talk with them…negotiations are better than silence…
Silence make our problems worse sometimes….
When I deal with people who like to use implications instead of talking directly…I feel that I fell into a deep dark well…this well has no end .I begin to have a headeache because of over thinking.And then I begin to be crazy or mad.I feel that I need a psychiatrist when I reach to that degree of over thinking.
So why don’t we use the staight way in dealing with people.It is better for a healthy life.
Allah says in Quraan..
يا أيها الذين آمنوا لا تقولوا راعنا وقولوا انظرنا واسمعوا وللكافرين عذاب أليم
O ye of faith! Say not (to the Messenger) words of ambiguous import, but words of respect; and hearken (to him): To those without Faith is a grievous punishment